John Lennon once said, “It’s weird not to be weird…” Being weird has no age limit… Don’t you think it’s time to embrace your weirdness? These are lessons I learned in my 37 years of life that wish I could have gone back and applied them sooner, but I guess it’s better late than never….
Category: Emotional
Understanding and working on your emotions, traumas, and self-love
Becoming the adult you truly wanted as a child
The person you are now is the person you would’ve felt safe with as a kid. Read that again. Let it sink in. One TikTok video came up on my for you page yesterday saying that sentence and I can’t get it out of my head. I kept watching it over and over. Finally, I…
How to embrace being alone: Lonely vs Alone
I have been thinking a lot lately about being alone. Yes I am in a healthy relationship, but other than Mike and the kiddo. I spend most of my time alone. There are days where I only speak the few hours Mike is up before he leaves for work. Hours could go by in a…
Closing the chapters: Letting go of the old me
I had this whole plan for the series figuring out who I am as an adult, but it is time to start closing the chapters on the old me. If you haven’t read the other posts or watched the videos on my YouTube channel then the quick version of this series was… to talk about…
9 lessons a toxic parent will teach their children
The toxic parent in your life could have been your mother, your father whoever raised you. If you have been reading my story the past couple of weeks. I have pretty much been putting it out there that I had a rough childhood growing up. There is quite a list of parenting mistakes my mom…
Childhood Trauma: The truth about my mom’s abusive boyfriends
I have been debating back and forth if I should make a video about this. There is a part of me that thinks that they don’t deserve it. The other part of me just thinks I need to put it out there. Get it done and over with. So I can let it go… So…
Family Secrets: I Was Kidnapped As A Child
This is part 3 of my deep dive into my Dad’s death in 1988. I was kidnapped as a child. This is part 1 of 4.Part 1 – My Dad’s death: It is time I speak my truthPart 2 – Finding the lessons hidden in your traumaPart 3 – Family Secrets: I Was Kidnapped As…
Finding the hidden lessons hidden in your trauma
This is part 2 of my deep dive into my Dad’s death in 1988. If you don’t read the other parts some of what I am saying in this post will not make sense. This week I am finding the hidden lessons in my childhood trauma. This is part 1 of 4.Part 1 – My…
My Dad’s death: It is time I speak my truth
It has been an emotional rollercoaster this week. Since I rebranded the blog “figuring out who I am as an adult“. I thought I would slowly ease my way into doing the shadow work. My goal was to start from the beginning. I wanted to spend the week talking with the people close to me…
Soul Exhaustion: When you feel tired, but your body is not
I had this whole idea of a blog post on how to have a mindful fourth of July, but I have to scrap it because I couldn’t focus to finish it. After a deep dive google search and a phrase just spewing from my mouth would result in this week’s blog post about Soul exhaustion-…