Life is looking a little mundane lately… Stress is at an all time high, motivation is at an all time low, creativity is nowhere to be found and putting on actual clothes during the day is not an option… We need to start normalizing that It’s Okay Not To Be Okay… It is perfectly normal to feel this way.
Often times we push our emotions and feelings deep down inside and continue on with life as if nothing is bothering us. We don’t want to be the reason for someone’s bad day. We think it will pass and just keep pushing through. When that is not the case.
Sometimes it doesn’t get better. Sometimes it gets worse.
It’s Okay Not To Be Okay
Sometimes it gets so bad you start crying into a plate of chicken nuggets. Which that type of crying should only be done with pure happiness because cmon its chicken nuggets… But sometimes life has a different path for you. It’s okay not to be okay. Its perfectly normal.
When you are dealing with real life changing situations to is expect to not be okay. It is okay to admit to yourself and those around you that you are not okay.
I understand if you don’t admit it to those around you. You want to you want someone to know and try to help, but you don’t think you are worth it. You think you will get pity and concern, but think you don’t derserve it. Those around you have a million other things to worry about that are far more important than you and your silly little problem.
So you admit to yourself and let the overwhelming and overthinking take over your mind and silently say to others “You don’t have to worry about me. I can do that.”
Sometimes you just have to give yourself a little morning pep talk…
It’s perfectly normal
You suffer in silence because that is what we are taught to do. It’s okay not to be okay. It is expected. It is going to happen a lot throughout your life. You have to accept that you won’t be okay and that has to be okay, because that is how things are.
You can not be okay all the time. Sometimes you have to sit and cry into chicken nuggies because they comfort you and never judge you.
Why can’t people be more like chicken nuggies? Don’t judge people. Not taste great baked or fried to a golden perfection. That is just weird. I created an image in my head that I know need you to also imagine it. LOL
Use this post as a place for you to admit if you are not okay. and I will go first.
I am not okay. There are all these ideas in my head, but don’t know where to start. I got my period for the first time in a couple months that knocked the wind out of me. Welcome to having PCOS. I am mentally and emotionally exhausted. Trying to make a livable wage from blogging and its not working. So I am starting to look for a job and enlisted the help of my local career source to help brush me up on my professional skills. I think I want to go to the doctor to see if I have ADHD, because lately I think I do. I am just not in a good place mentally and all I can do is take it one day at time.
It’s okay not to be okay it’s perfectly normal.
Until next time, Have a great day! Remember you are a badass!