One year of blogging – What have I learned?

One year of blogging

My 1-year Blogaversary! One year of blogging man!

Can I just start by saying WOW! It’s my 1 year blogging anniversary. I have been blogging on and off since 2006. That’s 14 years my friends. I was 20 years old. I always say I wish I had stuck with it and took it more seriously, but I know I was too young and immature to think this could be my career then. It was all about boys, my friends, and drinking.

Kinda glad I didn’t. I have read some of my old posts from Blogspot and let me tell you… they were not good. I know what I was trying to get across, but I went about it in all the wrong ways. Guys… I can’t believe it has been one year of blogging.

What Have I Learned?

Let us reflect on the past year and let you know some things I have learned as well what is in store for Our Redonkulous Life. I have learned so much and I am still learning every day. In no particular order here are 10 things I have learned in my one year of blogging.

Every idea needs a plan

I have a book full of ideas for blog posts, but I won’t write any of them till I have an absolute plan on executing them. I learned this after the first month of blogging. Early on you could tell from my writing I had absolutely no plan and kinda just threw together a post. It doesn’t work that way. Now when I have an idea I think long and hard on what I want to touch on. What do I think are the most important parts. Once I am done writing a post I am already thinking about the next one and how I am going to go about writing about it.

Photo by Lisa Fotios from Pexels

Have a posting schedule

I always knew what days I was going to be posting and I thought that was it. No, no, no honey. It has to be the same day, same time, same everything. If you don’t it affects google and their algorithm. I did not know that till month 11 of blogging. Please learn from my mistake, start from day one. Save yourself the hassle.

Also, this goes along with having a schedule for yourself which I kind of had, just not with the times. It wasn’t until month 11 I created a block schedule for my blog, not just my everyday life. I used a spreadsheet labeled it Sunday-Saturday across the top and 6a-11p down the left-hand side. On this sheet, I color coordinated the things I needed to do and what time I wanted to do them.

One year of blogging


I did this so I wasn’t rushing every post day trying to get everything done. I got over that shit real quick. Once my schedule was done I screenshot it on the computer and put it as my desktop background. My schedule is the very first thing I see when I get on the computer and there is no confusion on what I should be doing that day.

The blogging community matters

I joined a lot of blogging groups but slowly removed myself from a lot of them. However, now that I have a schedule I might join a few more. If it wasn’t for these groups I wouldn’t have the traffic I had in the beginning. Being in these groups and reciprocating the daily posts, shares, comments, repinning it is A LOT, but again so worth it. I will never take for granted the regular posters in the groups who have shared all my posts. I highly recommend Bloggers Supporting Each Other and Bloggers Support Bloggers

Plan ahead

PLAN AHEAD!! I cannot stress this enough. I mean you had me at lists when I first started blogging. If you have read some of my posts before you know I am a sucker for lists and stationary. I have a dry erase calendar I use with little post its and I plan out my content for the month on the days I am posting. I don’t use the calendar anymore because I can’t hang it up on my wall since I moved.

So now I just use a piece of paper and write the dates down. I look at events we ARE going to, events we WANT to go to. I also look at the national day today sight and see if there is anything that sticks out, that I might want to write a post about. I also look at things I have already done that I could share my point of view and opinion on if I think other people might be interested.

One year of blogging

Always Learning

You will never be done learning while blogging. If you think you are done learning all you can, you are wrong. The way of blogging and social media is always changing. You need to make sure you are updated on that. I read and sign up for everything I can get to on my computer and in person. It never hurts to be able to educate someone who may have questions for you.

Guest Posts

Only one person did a guest posted on my blog and I published a post on theirs. I would love to do it more or even collab on a series post with someone. It is a great way to get your name out there and a great way to make blogger friends along the way.

Don’t stretch yourself too thin

I am guilty of this. At the beginning when I started my blog I told myself I am going to post Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I will bust out post after post. That was way too much for someone just starting out. When I started my blog it was kind of a spur of the moment. I knew I wanted to start a blog, but I should have waited and written a good amount of posts first so I would have more content for the few readers who may have stumbled upon my site to read. 2 were written one blog post and the home page.

What should I have done?

I should have had 9 posts written and that would have covered me for the first 3 weeks of blogging to keep up with the 3 times a week posting. Since I didn’t I switch to Wednesdays and Fridays. Then I came up with a schedule for Tuesday and Fridays. Even 2 times a week was a lot for me. Now I have just opted for Fridays at 8a and my Newsletter goes out Saturday at 8a. I have given myself a schedule that doesn’t spread me out to thin. If I have time I will post on a Tuesday as a bonus blog for the week.

Don’t believe everything you read

I see so many posts on Pinterest that state “How I made 4,000 dollars within my first month of blogging”. There may be a 1 in a million chance that actually happened. They know new bloggers are going to read the post in its entirety like its the bible because they want to know how to do that. I, 100% do believe you should monetize your blog from the beginning, but just know you won’t make a lot of money.

Confidence with posting on social media

I am perfectly fine sharing things on my personal Facebook with Friends and Family, but I was never an avid twitter, Instagram and Pinterest user. Blogging may be what I do and that involves sharing things in my personal life, but I am still a private person. I have never been comfortable sharing things on anything other than Facebook.

Starting this blog I realized people will want to see who is writing the things they are reading. I have eventually found myself wanting to post a picture of myself on Instagram and wanting people to follow me that I don’t know. I want to get to know you now. This blog has given me the confidence to post more pictures and do things out of my comfort zone.

Write about things you are proud of

If I could tell you one thing to do in your one year of blogging and this is the most important one of all. Earlier in the year, I could tell you I posted things I was on the fence about. Stooping to the level of just posting a blog that was just pictures and quotes, because it was easy. Slowly realizing I am not proud of those. I don’t want the easy route, I want the long hours, constantly researching and making sure what I am saying is accurate, I want to be authentically me.

Photo by Suzy Hazelwood from Pexels

What do I want to write about?

I want to write about things that I myself would click to read. Some articles I am really proud of the reconnecting with a spouse, all the posts about Personal Growth because those are things I am going through right now. I want all of you who are reading to follow along my journey and grow with me. I want to inspire you at any point in your life to be better and do better because you deserve the life you want.

That is what I have learned so far…

I hope you guys enjoyed this post about celebrating my one year of blogging. What is coming up in the world of Our Redonkulous Life… More adventures with the family. We moved to Tampa a month ago and have sooooo many places to explore. More Self Development. More ideas I have is a bread series I want to start… you know I have to redeem myself from my previous encounters with bread. I hope you guys stay with me and continue to support me and my blog. Let’s continue with one more year of blogging! I love you all and remember…

Until Next Time, Have a Good Day!

One year of blogging

28 Replies to “One year of blogging – What have I learned?”

  1. I am a little over a year into blogging and I totally agree with all this! I do get discouraged when I see those posts about people who made thousands of dollars their first month, but like you said I think it’s a fluke

    1. Those posts annoy me so much because everything they say to do… I’m doing it and it is not working. I am not worried about the money though. I am here to share. The money would be nice but it is not expected.

  2. Happy blogavasry. I’m not even a month old in blogging and hearing your story/lessons, you’ve given me ideas and tricks on how to handle my blog. Thank you so much
    I’m still struggling with the confidence on social media stuff. But I think with time,I’ll overcome it

    1. Welcome to the community, please ask any questions. I am more than happy to help. 🙂

  3. I can totally resonate with this! Having a schedule is the most important for me so I don’t get distracted!

    1. My schedule is my bible. If I do not look at it every day I would be lost.

  4. Congrats on making to year 1. I’m at month 6 and I’m impatiently waiting to make a bit of money. While I wish the process would be faster, i know I’ll make money when the time is right.

    1. Congrats on 6 months. You are right the money will come when the time is right.

  5. Hey Michelle – I love your blog ! After reading your post, I’ve linked in with you on Twitter and FB. I’m on my blogging journey and like you, I’d been doing it on and off for a while until I realised I needed a better plan! My blog has evolved since the start and continues to. Keep it up ! And follow us if you like our stuff too

    1. I see that. I appreciate the reach out. I have accepted and followed you back. Love the support, thank you I really appreciate it!

  6. Wow happy Blog anniversary. I do blogging almost 2 years and blogging is part of my life more blog journeys to come! Cheers!

    1. Damn right, more blogging journeys to come. 🙂

  7. I’ve been 10 years blogging consistently and I know how overwhelming that is. You learn as you go.

    1. Exactly, I learn more from doing than just reading.

  8. I love your tasks mapped out on your daily schedule. I have a full time job working as a finance director and wish I had that much time to devote to my creative endeavors. Jealous! I hope someday to be able to quit my day job and blog full time. I really like your writing style and would love a guest post on my site about blog as passive income if you ever get to the point where you feel like you want to write about that!

    1. The only reason I am able to dedicate so much time to the blog is that my fiance agreed with me that I should quit my job. It was a toxic environment. You can read about it here if you like. Why I had to quit my job – When an obligation comes before health I would love to guest post, however, its not easy making money blogging in the beginning. I have made some money but nothing worth writing about.

  9. Great article. This is something worth reading. Thanks for sharing. I learned a lot from you again.

    1. Thank you so much, Neil. I appreciate your comment. I am glad you took something away from my post.

  10. Kudos to you for plugging away, it’ll all definitely payoff 🙂

  11. I have been blogging off and on for about twelve years. I started my own blog site last year and it has been a struggle as I work a full-time job. I hope to focus more on it this year.

  12. First congratulations on one year of blogging! That’s super exciting!
    I love this post! I think It’s so important not to believe everything you read. I wish I read this before I started blogging!

  13. I love your posting schedule! I am implementing that ASAP!

    1. Go for it! It has saved me so much time by putting it as my desktop background and I am only doing a little bit of work a day. No need to overwhelm myself with tasks.

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  15. Lavern Moore says: Reply

    Thanks for documenting your blogging journey. It is great value to learn this.

  16. Congrats on 1 year of blogging! It’s amazing how much you can learn in such a short time. I have to admit, Not stretching yourself too thin is probably one of the hardest lessons I’ve had to learn. Good luck and keep up the good work!

    1. Thank you, Magen. I have learned a lot this past year. I am also learning a lot this year. Yeah, I really needed to stop stretching myself to thin.

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